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What triggers me during BLM

nyie16 June 17, 2020 No Comments

I want to start by saying these are all my opinions and my perspective, and the suggestions I am going to share with you here is how I would personally respond to my white friends or any white person that reaches out to me and offer support! The reason am writing this article is to […]


Worried & Anxious about getting Older? You are not alone!!

nyie16 June 7, 2020 No Comments

Getting older has never been an issue for me that I have ever worried about, never. But I am in an intense internal self pressure to wanna look young and I don’t know why. For some reason knowing that I am going to be turning 40yrs old next year, somehow my brain is can’t handle […]


Why it matters for my kids to understand what being BLACK in America actually translates to!

nyie16 May 29, 2020 No Comments

I am writing these notes with such a heavy heart this evening after watching over so many lives of our young black men and women being taken away unjustified just because another human being feels like he has the power to do so and will never be questioned about their cruel actions…. As a mother […]