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Part 3: Does receiving closure after a Betrayal beneficial?

nyie16 January 3, 2021 No Comments

The reason, you need to cry and cuss and wonder is to allow yourself the permission to open the wound back up and feel that hurt the other person has caused you and go through it rather than stuff it on a shelf somewhere in your head/heart. Because by doing so (stuffing the feeling), you […]


Part 2: Are closures beneficial after a BETRAYAL?

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It took me a whole year and half after being betrayed to finally feel like I was over a person I really loved and cared for so much. Trust me, so many times I wanted to rush through the healing process but for some reason it didn’t work for me and I know it’s because […]


Part 1: How beneficial is getting closure after a BETRAYAL?

nyie16 September 24, 2020 No Comments

It’s human nature to want to get closure when we feel betrayed by a person we love(d). This person can be a significant other or a family member. But one important thing to be aware of is that; not all closures are good for our emotional health and well being. A lot of issues such […]