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Facts, dating a single mother is complicated!

nyie16 February 15, 2021 No Comments


When times up, LOVE expires just like shelf products at the store. Personal happiness is KEY

nyie16 January 15, 2021 No Comments

Imagine the excitement of getting married to the love of your life. But also imagine what if you have to sign for an expiration date on your marriage certificate? Yep, that’s what other people would prefer as a list of options on a marriage certificate. Today’s article is based on a wonder and candid conversation […]


Splurging or Sparing on that man’s offer?

nyie16 January 9, 2021 No Comments

Listen, do I ask? Of course not! But do I always itch and want to, absolutely!! I mean, who wouldn’t like to know how much they can splurge? But seriously ladies, if you have been seeing or dating a man for a little while and he offers to take you shopping how do you usually […]