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PURPOSEFUL DATING. How to catch the man that deserve you!

nyie16 January 5, 2021 No Comments

****Check out the PODCAST page & watch this discussion on my Youtube channel**** Do you sometimes look at your life and wonder where did time go? I will be turning 40years old this year and SMH because for whatever reason am still trying to convince myself that it’s not some sort of a mistake that […]


Part 5: seeking Closure after a betrayal

nyie16 January 3, 2021 No Comments

I can admit and say personally, I give props to the women and men who have been cheated on by their significant other but chose to stay and work on their relationship/marriage because they are better and stronger than me in every kind of way. And, I will never say never of course, because there […]


Part 4: Should I get closure after a Betrayal?

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Another book I read and also loved was The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, I can’t stress enough how helpful this book has been to me. It always reminds me how important it is to focus on what matters NOW not what mattered yesterday or which will matter tomorrow but NOW!! This book always helps […]