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Are you carrying a weapon with you?

nyie16 September 6, 2021 No Comments

Ladies, have you been watching news? Are you seeing how scary people are becoming? Does this make you feel worried about your safety? I keep saying to myself I need to take a break from watching the TV and looking at Social media because it feels like not a day goes by where I don’t […]


Healing after trauma

nyie16 August 22, 2021 No Comments

From childhood to adulthood, a lot of us go through so much; emotionally, mentally, physically and even spiritually. And, as we get older, the challenges of life keep getting bigger and so does life keeps getting harder. Due to daily endurance we try to achieve in order to protect our sanity and dignity from whatever […]


I can’t with these kids!!

nyie16 August 21, 2021 No Comments

Seriously, if you are a mom of a 2-6 yro please, please help me understand what techniques you are using to not feel like you are going crazy or you are not insane because I am just over raising kids and being a mom. I feel like am done being patient and trying to be […]